September 26th, 2023

The Beauty and Challenges of Breastfeeding:
​A Compassionate Perspective 

Something I hear often is: Breastfeeding is natural. I don’t understand why people struggle so much. If it was hard, the human race would have failed to exist”.  

​It's a natural process that has been practiced for thousands of years, and yet, it can be incredibly challenging for many new moms. Let's explore why this is the case and why it's important to approach this topic with compassion and understanding. Breastfeeding is undoubtedly a beautiful and intimate way to nourish and bond with our little ones. It provides numerous health benefits for both mom and baby, and it's a journey that can be incredibly rewarding. However, it's essential to acknowledge that it's not always a smooth sailing experience for everyone.
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Throughout history, women have faced various obstacles when it comes to breastfeeding. From latch issues and low milk supply to painful nursing sessions, these challenges have always existed. In the past, when breastfeeding didn't work, babies sadly suffered, and infant mortality rates were higher. Thankfully, with advancements in medical knowledge and support systems, we have been able to decrease these rates significantly. This is a dark part of history we do not acknowledge. 

So, why is breastfeeding so hard if it's a natural process? Well, there are several factors at play. Firstly, every mother and baby dyad is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. It takes time for both mom and baby to learn and adjust to this new experience. Patience and support are crucial during this period. 
Additionally, societal pressures and unrealistic expectations can add to the difficulties. The pressure to exclusively breastfeed can be overwhelming, leading to feelings of guilt and inadequacy when faced with challenges. It's important to remember that every mother's journey is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. What matters most is the well-being of both mom and baby. Did you know a large percentage of my clients are supplementing but many fear admitting this to me. 

Let's approach this topic with compassion and understanding. Instead of judging or shaming, let's offer support and empathy to those who may be struggling. 
To all the moms out there who have faced or are currently facing breastfeeding challenges, please know that you are not alone. Reach out for help, seek guidance from lactation consultants, and surround yourself with a supportive community. Remember, what matters most is the love and care you provide to your little one, regardless of how they are nourished.

Let's continue to educate ourselves and others about the realities of breastfeeding, celebrating the successes and supporting each other through the challenges. Together, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world for all moms and babies. 💗🤱